I'm apologizing right now for a longer post...but I just kept having thoughts! And there are some really good quotes, so you should keep reading ;)
“Anyone who imagines that bliss is normal is going to waste
a lot of time running around shouting that he has been robbed. The fact is that
most putts don’t drop, most beef is tough, most children grow up to be just like
people, most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration,
and most jobs are more often dull than otherwise. Life is just like an old time
rail journey ... delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders, and jolts,
interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of
speed. The trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride.”
~President Gordon B Hinckley~
Things are going to come up in life and you are not going to
like it. For example, a few Fridays ago was crazy for me. I had homework starting at 7 until 9, and then classes from 9 until 11:15, and then I had to run to the
testing center and take a test and a quiz… which I did not do very well on.
Then I hurried to my next class at 1, and then at 2 I finally was able to head
to my apartment. However, this did not mean I had down time. I still worked on homework, and then I had to get
ready for work from 4-10. I got off work and then went to visit with my mom for
a couple hours, and when I got back to my apartment I had homework until 1. Can you say crazy?
I had been dreading that day all week (and it was a FRIDAY for crying out loud!), and when it finally came I didn’t even
have time to think.
As I reflected on my thoughts for the day they were mostly negative. I don't have enough time! I'm exhausted! Work? I still have homework! I just am no good because I can never pass a test/quiz in this class... and, trust me, the list went on.
However, as I relived my thoughts I came across good things that made my day better and caused a little smile to escape in the madness. They weren't huge... just simple, random things throughout my day.
Simple, rejuvenating experiences surround us.
~Richard G.
Scott~
The girl who said good morning with a cheery smile as I walked to class...
Tripping over myself, but regaining balance and just laughing...
The boy whistling for all the world to hear...
The boy jamming out with his headphones in, not a care in the world...
Laughter and smiles from people I knew, and people I didn't know...
And that list goes on too...
I recently read a talk by Elder Joseph B Wirthlin where he gives us 4 steps
to help us find joy in life…
Learn to laugh--I couldn't help but think of my
snowboarding experience. :)
Seek for the eternal--Always keep your goals focused on an eternal perspective...not an earthly one.
Understand the principle of compensation--The
Lord will bless you, even if it doesn’t come at a time that you want.
Trust in the Lord--Put your trust in the Lord, do your
best, and He will do the rest.-Joseph B Wirthlin
If we keep these 4 steps in mind we can be happy eternally. My absolute favorite quote from Joseph B Wirthlin is, “Come
what may and love it.” No matter what happens in life, find the positive side and focus on it...even if it's not so grand, it will seem better.
“Sadness, disappointment, and
severe challenge are events in life, not life itself.”
~Richard G. Scott~
This means that life will go on. Every trial that we go through will come to an end
eventually. That end may be far away, but it will come. "Everything will be okay in the end; if it's not okay, it's not the end." We need to remember
this… keep everything in perspective and keep living life. “Come what may and
love it.” Don’t let
events get you
down.
A lot of times I find myself worrying about the future…
graduation, marriage, family, a career, and the list goes on. Sometimes I get weighed
down with everything that I’m going to have to do and I forget about my life
right now in the present. President Thomas S Monson tells us, “I plead with you
not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that
illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want
to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now.”
Don’t worry about what is going
to happen. Yes, you should prepare for it, but don’t spend time worrying about
when it’s going to happen and what you are going to do when it does. That will
all come with time, and you should just live life now. When I get stressed my
dad tells me to live life one day at a time. That's what I try to do. Don’t worry about tomorrow when
you’ve still got today.
We only live life once and we should make the most of it.
President Monson also tells us, “Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in
the journey, and share our love with friends and family. One day each of us
will run out of tomorrows.”
I hope you will be able to live life in the now. Don’t worry
about what you are going to do in the future. Live in the present, put your
trust in the Lord, learn and live the gospel... and learn to laugh. I promise you
that you will find joy in your life if you do this. I know that the Lord is on
our side. He knows what’s best for us and He will help us throughout life, even if it's just through the simple things we encounter every day.